Psalm 3:3 NKJV


Surrounded by Grace

A kneeling man in tattered clothing being comforted by a seated man with a beard in simple robes

Have you ever had a season where it felt like everyone was whispering behind your back, or worse, openly writing you off?

That was exactly where King David found himself when he wrote Psalm 3. He wasn’t sitting comfortably on his throne; he was fleeing into the wilderness, running for his life from his own son, Absalom. His reputation was in tatters, his kingdom was compromised, and the crowd was chanting a devastating refrain: “There is no help for him in God.”

When the world slams the door on you, the temptation is to slink away, drop your head, and sink into despair. But David does something radical. He doesn’t look at the crowd; he looks past them. He anchors himself with one of the most powerful pivot words in the entire Bible: “But.”

An active believer knows that the harder life hits, the tighter we have to cling to God. When the circumstances of life tell you there is no hope, that is your cue to cry out with even greater assurance. Look at how David defines exactly who God is when everything else falls apart:

1. He is Your Safety (“A shield for me”)

David was a warrior, so he knew exactly what a shield was. But the original Hebrew word he uses here implies something much greater than a standard, flat piece of armor you hold in front of you. It refers to a buckler round about—a complete, 360-degree sphere of protection.

When you belong to God, He doesn’t just block the attacks coming at your face. He is a shield above you against the storms of life, beneath you against the fiery darts of the enemy, and around you against public slander. Best of all, He stands within you, speaking peace to the storm raging inside your own heart. He isn’t just a theoretical shield; He is a shield for you—offering present, active benefit when you need it most.

2. He is Your Honor (“My glory”)

When David fled Jerusalem, his crown was gone, his royal reputation was shattered, and he was being publicly mocked. By the world’s standards, he had lost his glory.

But David knew a profound secret: his true honor didn’t come from a gold crown, a palace, or the applause of a fickle crowd. God was the source of his worth. When you belong to God, your identity is firmly anchored in Him. You can walk through seasons of deep rejection, unfair criticism, or public failure and still hold fast to your true value because the King of the universe calls you His own. Your circumstances might not look glorious right now, but your God is, and He shares His honor with you.

3. He is Your Joy (“The One who lifts up my head”)

When we are consumed by grief, shame, or exhaustion, our body language shows it. Our shoulders slump, and our heads bow down in defeat. We look at the dirt because we are too discouraged to look up.

But God doesn’t just stand over you telling you to cheer up; He gently reaches down and lifts your head. He gives you the inward strength, comfort, and boldness to look up into His eyes. He promises that although you may hang your head in sorrow for a difficult night, you will soon lift it up in absolute joy and victory.

The Ultimate Shadow of the Savior

If you feel overwhelmed by a multitude of troubles today, look to Jesus. This Psalm is a perfect picture of what Christ experienced centuries later. In His infancy, He fled from Herod’s rage. In the Garden of Gethsemane and on the Hill of Calvary, He was surrounded by a mocking crowd that yelled, “He trusted in God; let Him deliver Him now!”

Jesus allowed Himself to be overwhelmed by our sins, our shame, and our sorrows so that He could overcome them on our behalf. Just as God the Father lifted up Christ’s head by raising Him from the dead and exalting Him to the highest place, He will lift up your head, too. You are never left to fight these battles alone.

Because of His righteousness, you can lift your head with confidence today at the throne of grace, and you will lift it with victory on the day of judgment.

Genesis 15:1

“After these things the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision, saying, ‘Do not be afraid, Abram. I am your shield, your exceedingly great reward.’”

Psalm 18:2

“The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer;

My God, my strength, in whom I will trust;

My shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.”

Isaiah 60:19

“The sun shall no longer be your light by day,

Nor for brightness shall the moon give light to you;

But the Lord will be to you an everlasting light,

And your God your glory.”

Luke 21:28

“Now when these things begin to happen, look up and lift up your heads, because your redemption draws near.”

AttributeWhat It Means For You Today
An Encompassing ShieldGod doesn’t just protect you from one direction; He surrounds you completely—above, beneath, inside, and out.
Unshakable IdentityYour value is not based on your current performance, your financial status, or what people say about you. God is your glory.
Gentle RestorationWhen life forces your head down in sorrow or exhaustion, God promises to restore your joy and lift your chin back up.
The Power of “But You”Victory begins when you stop looking at the size of your problems and focus instead on the character of your Savior.
  1. Identifying the Noise: What specific situations or voices are telling you right now that “there is no help for you”? How can you practically speak a “But You, O Lord…” over those anxieties today?
  2. Where is Your Shield? In what area of your life do you feel the most exposed to attack right now (your finances, your family, your mental health)? See the Lord as a total, circular shield around that exact vulnerability. What does surrendering that area to His protection look like?
  3. Lifting your head: In what areas of your life has your head been bowed down by grief, stress, or shame? What would it look like if you allowed God to lift your head and restore your joy this week?

“The Lord bless you and keep you; The Lord make His face shine upon you, And be gracious to you; The Lord lift up His countenance upon you, And give you peace.”  Numbers 6:24-26 NKJV

Grace be with you. Amen.

Please enter your email and click subscribe to be notified whenever I submit a new post. 

These commentaries emphasize that despite intense opposition and shame, David declares God as his complete, surrounding shield of safety. While worldly minds find identity in earthly prestige, the believer’s true honor and glory reside exclusively in God. Finally, God acts as the ultimate source of joy and deliverance, gently raising the heavily bowed head of the sorrowful to reinstate them in bold, victorious, and permanent kingdom confidence.

Charles Spurgeon

Here David avows his confidence in God. “Thou, O Lord, art a shield for me.” The word in the original signifies more than a shield; it means a buckler round about, a protection which shall surround a man entirely, a shield above, beneath, around, without, and within. Oh! What a shield is God for his people! He wards off the fiery darts of Satan from beneath, and the storms of trials from above, while, at the same instant, he speaks peace to the tempest within the breast. 

Thou art “my glory.” David knew that though he was driven from his capital in contempt and scorn, he should yet return in triumph, and by faith he looks upon God as honoring and glorifying him. O for grace to see our future glory amid present shame! Indeed, there is a present glory in our afflictions, if we could but discern it; for it is no mean thing to have fellowship with Christ in his sufferings. David was honored when he made the ascent of Olivet, weeping, with his head covered; for he was in all this made like unto his Lord. May we learn, in this respect, to glory in tribulations also! 

And the lifter up of mine head“—thou shalt yet exalt me. Though I hang my head in sorrow, I shall very soon lift it up in joy and thanksgiving.

______________________________________________________

Enduring Word

You, O LORD, are a shield for me: Though many said there was no help for him in God, David knew that God was his shield. Others – even many others – couldn’t shake David’s confidence in a God of love and help. (Guzik)

i. Under attack from a cunning and ruthless enemy, David needed a shield. He knew that God was his shield. This wasn’t a prayer asking God to fulfill this; this is a strong declaration of fact: You, O LORD, are a shield for me. (Guzik)

My glory and the One who lifts my head: God was more than David’s protection. He also was the One who put David on higher ground, lifting his head and showing him glory. There was nothing glorious or head-lifting in David’s circumstances, but there was in his God. (Guzik)

i. Men find glory in all sorts of things – fame, power, prestige, or possessions. David found his glory in the LORD. “Oh, my soul, hast thou made God thy glory? Others boast in their wealth, beauty, position, achievements: dost thou find in God what they find in these?” (Meyer)

______________________________________________________

Albert Barnes

But thou, O Lord, art a shield for me – Not only in these dangers, but in all dangers. The declaration here has a general form, as if he could trust in him at all times. It shows what his feelings were on the occasion here referred to, when dangers stood thick around him, and what his feelings habitually were in times of peril. The shield was a well-known part of ancient armor, of use, according to the ancient modes of warfare, when swords, and spears, and arrows were employed, but of use only then, since they would constitute no defense against a musket or cannonball. They were usually made of tough and thick hides, fastened to a rim, and so attached to the left arm that they could be readily thrown before the body when attacked, or so that, as they were usually held, the vital parts of the body would be protected. See the notes at Ephesians 6:14-16. From this use of the shield it was natural to speak of God as the “shield,” or the “Protector” of his people – an appellation which is often given to him in the Scriptures (Genesis 15:1Deu 33:292 Samuel 22:3Psalms 28:7Psalms 119:114Psalms 144:2Psalms 33:20Psalms 84:11Proverbs 30:5.

My glory – My honor, or the source of my honor. That is, he bestows upon me all the honor that I have, and it is my glory that I may put my trust in him. I regard it as an honor to be permitted, in times of danger and trouble, to rely on him – a sentiment in which every true child of God will unite.

And the lifter up of my head – The head, in time of trouble and sorrow, is naturally bowed down, as if overpowered with the weight of affliction. See Psalms 35:14: “I bowed down heavily as one that mourneth for his mother;” Psalms 38:6 : “I am bowed down greatly; I go mourning all the day.” Compare Psalms 42:5Psalms 44:25Psalms 57:6John 19:30. To lift up the head, therefore, or to raise one up, is to relieve his distresses, or to take away his troubles. Such a helper, David says, he had always found God to be, and he looks to him as one who is able to help him still. That is, he feels that God can so entirely take away his present griefs as to reinstate him in his former happy and honorable condition.

______________________________________________________

John Gill

But thou, O Lord, [art] a shield for me,…. Or “about me” protecting and defending me. David was a military man, and often alludes to military affairs; and borrows words from thence, expressive of his great security from the Lord; see Psalm 18:2. So Jehovah the Father was a shield to Christ, in his infancy, from Herod’s rage and fury; and afterwards from the insults of the Pharisees, and their attempts to take away his life before the time; and in his sufferings and death, so as that his faith and confidence in him were kept up, and he got the victory over sin, Satan, and the world; see Psalm 22:9. And the Lord is a shield unto all his people, Genesis 15:1. They are kept by his power, and encompassed about with his favor, as with a shield; his veracity and his faithfulness in his promises, and his truth, are their shield and buckler: and especially his Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, is the shield which faith makes use of, particularly his blood and righteousness, and salvation by him; which it holds up, and defends itself with, against the charges of the law, the accusations of conscience, and the temptations of Satan; and which are a security from the justice of God, and wrath to come;

my glory; who took David from the sheepfold, and made him king over Israel, and raised him to all the glory he had enjoyed; and in whom he gloried as his covenant God, and of whom he made his boast; and not of his strength, valor, wisdom, riches, and honor. So God the Father is the glory of Christ, the glorifier of him, by supporting him under his sufferings, raising him from the dead, and setting him at his own right hand, where he is crowned with glory and honor: he is the glory of his people, in whom they glory, and by whom they are called to eternal glory; and who will give it to them, and reveal it in them, even an eternal weight of it, which the sufferings of this life are not worthy to be compared unto;

and the lifter up mine head; such as the helmet is: the Lord was lifter up of David’s head when he brought him to the throne, and afterwards gave him victory over his enemies; for so the phrase of lifting up the head signifies; see 2 Kings 25:27. And he was the lifter up of Christ’s head when he raised him from the dead; and exalted him, both with and at his right hand, to be a Prince and a Savior, and gave him a name above every name. And he is the lifter up of the heads of his people in conversion, when he raises them from a low estate, and sets them among princes to inherit the throne of glory; and when he gives them comfort, peace, and joy, which causes them to lift up their heads; whereas in sorrow, and mourning, and distress, the head is bowed down like a bulrush, Isaiah 58:5; and when he gives them boldness and confidence, as at the throne of grace now, through the sprinkling of the blood of Christ upon them; so at the bar of judgment hereafter, through the righteousness of Christ put upon them, as that they shall not be ashamed nor confounded; see Luke 21:28; and he will be the lifter up of their heads in the resurrection morn, and when they shall appear with Christ in glory.

______________________________________________________

Matthew Henry

With a profession of his dependence upon God, v. 3. An active believer, the more he is beaten off from God, either by the rebukes of Providence or the reproaches of enemies, the faster hold he will take of him and the closer will he cleave to him; so David here, when his enemies said, There is no help for him in God, cries out with so much the more assurance, “But thou, O Lord! art a shield for me; let them say what they will, I am sure thou wilt never desert me, and I am resolved I will never distrust thee.” 

See what God is to his people, what he will be, what they have found in him, what David found in him.

1. Safety: “Thou art a shield for me, a shield about me” (so some), “to secure me on all sides, since my enemies surrounded me.” Not only my shield (Gen. 15:1), which denotes an interest in the divine protection, but a shield for me, which denotes the present benefit and advantage of that protection.

2. Honor: Thou art my glory. Those whom God owns for his are not safe and easy, but really look great, and have true honor put upon them, far above that which the great ones of the earth are proud of. David was now in disgrace; the crown had fallen from his head; but he will not think the worse of himself while he has God for his glory, Isa. 60:19“Thou art my glory; thy glory I reckon mine” (so some); “this is what I aim at, and am ambitious of, whatever my lot is, and whatever becomes of my honor-that I may be to my God for a name and a praise.”

3. Joy and deliverance: “Thou art the lifter up of my head; thou wilt lift up my head out of my troubles, and restore me to my dignity again, in due time; or, at least, thou wilt lift up my head under my troubles, so that I shall not droop nor be discouraged, nor shall my spirits fail.” If, in the worst of times, God’s people can lift up their heads with joy, knowing that all shall work for good to them, they will own it is God that is the lifter up of their head, that gives them both cause to rejoice and hearts to rejoice.

In singing this, and praying it over, we should possess ourselves with an apprehension of the danger we are in from the multitude and malice of our spiritual enemies, who seek the ruin of our souls by driving us from our God, and we should concern ourselves in the distresses and dangers of the church of God, which is every where spoken again, every where fought against; but, in reference to both, we should encourage ourselves in our God, who owns and protects and will in due time crown his own interest both in the world and in the hearts of his people.

______________________________________________________

Miscellaneous Comments

Lifter up of my head.” God will have the body partake with the soul—as in matters of grief, so in matters of joy; the lanthorn shines in the light of the candle within.

Richard Sibbs, 1639.

There is a lifting up of the head by elevating to office, as with Pharaoh’s butler; this we trace to the divine appointment. There is a lifting up in honour after shame, in health after sickness, in gladness after sorrow, in restoration after a fall, in victory after a temporary defeat; in all these respects, the Lord is the lifter up of our head.

C. H. S.




Follow me on X – @billstephens_59
Follow me on Truth – @billstephens1959 

One response to “The Lifter of My Head: Finding Grace and Safety in Psalm 3:3”

  1. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    Amen 🙏 What a comforting reminder that no matter what we face, the Lord is our shield, our glory, and the One who lifts our heads. 🙏

Leave a Reply

Discover more from Collection of Commentaries

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading